Trusting that voiceless impulse is one of the hardest things I ever had to do. But if I had ignored it I would never have become authentically me.
Someone is going to try to talk you out of transition. They will probably be someone very close to you, who claims to love you. More than likely, they will not be the only one.
They may be your partner or parent, a relative or close friend. Whoever they are, they will surely come.
This person is going to tell you that you are not really trans. They may tell you that trasngender people are delusional and/or imaginary, or they may compare you to a “really trans” Other, You’re not one of those people. They will marshal whatever demons they can to frighten and paralyze you.
I make no guess as to content of the hearts and minds of these naysayers. Maybe they’re deeply sincere, maybe they’re full of shit. It doesn’t actually matter. What matters is that you are ready for them. This is a question of when…
View original post 641 more words